Approachability

I was talking to a friend online today, and I just came to think about approachability, the ability to be approached, the state of being approachable. Thats my defnition for approachability and approachable = invitingly friendly: friendly and easy to talk to. I was just rambling on about how being approachable is such a good trait, in fact it is the best trait a girl can have in my opinion.

For girls who are wondering why aren't guys approaching me and hitting on me is it because i'm fat or ugly or not slutty enough? Its probably because you're not very approachable thus guys aren't approaching you. Simple eh?

Of course if you were the world's hottest girl would get approached all the time, but can you be the world's hottest girl forever? I'm not saying looks doesn't matter of course it matters a lot, but when theres two hot girls in the room the difference between getting hit on or not is your approachability.

Sometimes is just simple things like body language, smiles, and the aura of a person that reflects their approachability. For the lesser intelligent human beings, it might be as simple as how slutty a girl is dressed which is probably why the slutty girls get approached more often than the less slutty girls. Anyways, it be awesome if everyone were more approachable. :)